I never quite grasped the sacrifices you made for me. Now I have captured a glimpse of what a mother is willing to do for her children. I never fully appreciated all your effort to care for our family. Now I have experienced the unending and sometimes "thankless" job of motherhood. I never fully realized that you held me as your treasure and gift from above. Now I have looked into my own children's eyes and am overtaken by a love that is indescribable.You, in more ways than even I know, helped shape me into the woman I am today. The memories of my interactions with you help me recall all the roles you have stepped into on my behalf. My earliest memory was when I was four or five years old. You left for a ladies' night out, the Fun Bunch I recall!! I was distraught at your leaving and truly believed you would never return. (bit dramatic at such a young age!!) I sat in the living room looking desperately at some photos of you and I together, sure that would be my only memories of you. I missed you and wanted my Mommy to come home. Of course, you returned and life went on, but that memory speaks volumes to me. You were my Mommy. You held me on your lap and kissed the boo boos away.


Soon Mommy, turned into "Mooommm".(said with irritated attitude that only a teen can pull off) You put up with disaster slumber parties, bad hair days, and pouty attitudes. You looked past all that and spent time with just me. I loved our days of shopping, eating out, and watching movies. I cherished the undivided attention from you.


As the attitude of adolescence faded, you became my Mother. You let me spread my wings and make my own mistakes. You loved me through every step I took into adulthood. You welcomed me back home and supported me when it was time to make my own home.


Now, you are my children's Grammy. You love the loves of my life. Thank you for loving me and mine through the years with an unending love.

Thank you for stepping into all of these roles throughout my life. In thinking of what to give you for your birthday, my heart led me to this. My words of love and appreciation for who you have been, who you are, and who you will continue to be in my life. I don't tell you enough how much I admire your devotion to our entire family. Though the paths of change have been hard to navigate at times, you have never turned your back. I love you for that.
Happy Birthday. I love you and wish you a beautiful and blessed day.
Love,
Your Youngest Daughter
4 comments:
What an awesome post! I might need to do something similar for Mother's Day... I had a great time getting to know you last week, hopefully I will see you soon.
What a beautiful letter to your mom. She sounds and looks like a beautiful mom that has given you countless treasures to hold on to.
Happy Birthday to Cheryl's mom! Thank you for raising such a beautiful daughter.
Oh Wow! I am truly blown away by that! What an absolutely wonderful, sentimental and meaningful acknowledgement for Mother!
That took me down some of those same memory trails as well! I remember taking the top picture when you were a baby!
Thank you so much Cheryl that is a great birthday gift. I love you very much. MOM
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